Move On!!

An incident in life can scar you for life. Probably cause you had too many expectations or maybe you had not seen it coming. Life can surprise you at times with unexpected moments. If something meant the world to you, it gets very difficult to let go. The emotions, thoughts and feelings somehow dont seem to fade away with time. Then what do we do? The above quote says it all. Troubles are a part of life, all that maters is how we look at it. Turning a negative situation to a positive one. Difficult, but it can be done if we try.
Some tips we can try are:

• Use what if....... : Turn the entire situation around by thinking what if something worse would happen. For example: suppose you had a bad day. Think about all the possible worse things that could ruin your day. This makes you feel like whatever happened wasn't really so bad.

•  I wanted new shoes until i saw a man with no feet: look at the things that you have but others dont and appreciate your blessings

• List down your positive points: Make a list of all your forte's. There must be atleast a few things that you excel at.

•  Stop being negative: There's always a way to get out of situation. you may mourn for a day or two. But being too much of a cry baby is over the top. Break negativity and find better things to do

• Do the things you love : Start doing the things you love. When you start doing the things you love,  it'll automatically uplift your mood, keeping you in a happier state.

No one lives a perfect life. But its in our hands to make it perfect and enjoy the moment. Bad times do come which is just a phase. It'll pass and fade away with time. All you need to do is change the way you look at it.